Okay, here's what you folks have done for me:
I got two wedge tender frames from tnk big (thanks), removed the wheels and the frame from my 6" hopper by bending three tabs out on each side, and pulled the old frame off.
I straightened the tabs on the tender frame and put it on the hopper. All the slots matched up without cutting anything new so all I had to do was push it all together tightly and bend the tabs back over.
I will remove the wheels on the "front"tender truck, cut the tang off of the tab-and slot coupler" and replace it with a tilt fork "butterfly coupler and spring that I bought, then put the wheels back on. No need to replace the truck or mess around with rivets...this time.
One down, one to go.
So far I'm into the project about ten minutes and it will be around a half hour more, mostly because of that tiny little wire coupler spring which seems to defy me and the laws of physics.
I might invest some time with a bit of steel wool and some paint, but I'm not convinced it's necessary yet.
Thanks for the information and encouragement.