Originally Posted by Dennis LaGrua:
I grew up in NYC in the 1950's. It was a far different time and a far different place...it was so easy to make new friends. I just hope that some in the next generation pick up the torch and keep this hobby going. I believe that they will.
As a high school teacher (retired,) I would offer the observation that "the next generation" is constructing its own (wholly unique and very, very, very different ?) version of society and of what constitutes a good life. From my admittedly limited range of vision, especially geographicaly and socio-economically, and in a few other subjective respects, I can honestly admit I am not sure what the younger generation is about, or how good the good ol' days actually were. Perhaps, it is too soon to tell?
Some of the younger folks with whom I have conversed, within our family and the parish, seem surprised or even unfamiliar with what I reference when I mention certain aspects of religion, or patriotism, or even ethics; some of their stated morals and approaches to inter-personal relationships seem oblique to my own. I listen, not argue, and I figure it's their business where they are taking this country, their own lives, and the world at-large, for a place and time fifty years hence (just as I am fifty years separated from my 1944 birthyear,) because I am not sure my generation is even a cog in that wheel. I am, however, increasingly certain a wholly different society is being constructed right around us.
My words and thoughts here are certainly not criticism of any younger generation. I have spent my professional life being nurturing and in-service to young people and thoroughly enjoyed every day of it. I only offer description and/or conjecture about what I sometimes see and feel around me. I certainly would not offer any generalities about the good old days, the "bad" old days, or the present, or future days ahead.
As far as our hobby is concerned, I hypothesize that the writing, no matter how subtle or slow-moving, is "on the wall," but those musings are left for my betters, here, who have - I am sure - very strong theories in this regard. To me, the inverted "Pyramid" explained by a previous Lionel leader is painfully obvious.
I suggest that we enjoy our memories - not matter how rose-colored they may be - enjoy or hobby while we are able, and enjoy what happens next.
This much I can say for sure. I am gleefully happy and deeply grateful I grew up in my hometown in the greater Pittsburgh area during the 40's, 50's, & 60's, and that I enjoyed almost all of it. Having had (and fully recovered from) polio, and having lost my father when he was 41 and I was 10 (and never fully recovered from), were the lone exceptions. The rest was wonderful. Happy. Safe. Kind. Full of friends and lots of penny-candy and triple-decker Isaly's ice cream cones. Oh, and there were those wonderful Lionel trains, too.
Just some thoughts.
Frank M.
my car, friends, and I planning a "get-away" in front of our highschool in 1962...
...grade school days, circa the 50's...
me really, really happy...in the 40's...