I am using screenings from the local quarry. Mostly Limestone.
I have a standard colander for pasta and a screen colander from the dollar store. I stack them on top of each other and shake them a bit and dump the 2 different size materials in different containers. Once I have a good amount of ballast I rinse it with the hose and dry it in a large tin on the grill.
I will post a couple pictures of the process later after work.