Jay, thanks for the very thoughtful note -- and the great suggestions!
Ron and John, those are all excellent questions and suggestions, and I appreciate your considered input!
First some background: I have a permanent layout in an adjacent room, built with MTH RealTrax, that I originally built decades ago. Since there were two duck-unders on that layout, I rebuilt the permanent layout about 5 years ago to eliminate the duck-unders. That also necessitated cutting the outer mainline from 0-72 track, to 0-36 track, at the widest.
Hence, I presently can't run any of my locos that require 0-54 or 0-72 track. So, goal #1 is to find track that will accommodate 0-72 locomotives.
The original layout in the adjacent room used GarGraves track, which was exceptional, but was not built to accommodate 0-72 locomotives. Once I purchased one of those gorgeous, "Crown Edition", Williams scale-sized brass locomotives that required 0-72 track, I had to do a rebuild of the entire layout. Since, I didn't have the time to keep cutting and forming the Gargraves track - which was required at the time - I had to replace the track system completely. To get the non-derailing feature, I chose Lionel 0 Gauge track for the next rebuild of the original layout in the adjacent room.
Over time, I became disenchanted with the 0-72 switches, and after reading an excellent article in a toy train magazine, I completely re-built the layout using MTH RealTrax. I didn't have the time then either to do all of the ballasting, etc., so the RealTrax offered a simpler option to me for my classic "toy" train layout.
As for this project with my grandson, I am comfortable designing the layout using my "T &E Software" -- "trial and error", and, of course, looking at the published track plans that I have acquired over the years.
I mostly need assistance with track that is easy to assemble and disassemble, and that comes in diameters up to 0'72.
Hence for both me and my grandson, I would like a track system that is easy to assemble and disassemble. That is goal #2.
Finally, IMHO, RealTrax and tubular track do not satisfy those goals. Just my opinion.
Thanks again!