I added a electro coupler to my C&O Hudson soon after I got it new.
Lionel had not yet furnished a electric coupler for this engine when I got it.
I used either a MTH or QSI electric coupler (can't remember which - they were alike anyway) and connected the dead end wire in the tender to one of the coupler wires and the remaining coupler wire to ground.
The coupler worked when commanded from the CAB-1, however I had a tech problem in operation. As said above its been a long time ago. The symptom was either it didn't work at times or fired open by its self. After much head scratching I discovered that if the tender was coupled to a car with plastic couplers or a car with metal couplers made the difference as to wheather problem occurred....
Apperently the coupler circuit was searching for ground in some manner......
The problem was solved by installing a ground wire between the tender frame and the engine. I used a mini-socket coupler in this ground wire so that I could separate the engine from the tender when taken off the track.....
To this day I don't know what was going on in the circuitry but grounding the tender frame to the engine frame solved the problem..........