Well... you're right, I made a silly assumption about the pins. However, the connections for the three wires from the contacts look to be pretty accessible anyway. However, let's assume you don't want to attack that or even open up the DZ-1008.
If you cut the existing wires short and spliced them, you should be fine. Leaving 2 inches of #26 wire to splice to for the relay contacts, that gives you a wire resistance resistance of .0025 ohms for the short wires. At ten amps of current that would drop 0.025 volts and dissipate .25 watts. This would be a non-issue, and it will work fine. Also, keep in mind that ten amps is the extreme case, it will be a very rare case where your sidings are carrying anything like ten amps!
I'll say it again, you don't need to complicate your life with extra add-on relays, just use the DZ-1008.
Here's the schematic of what's in the DZ-1008.