I inquire because of your stated comfort-zone (or lack thereof) with electronic components and wiring. I'd say the simplest method which guys have done in similar situations is to wire the reverse bulb/lamp on the DC motor output. The E-unit puts out a positive voltage onto the motor when spinning in FWD, and a negative voltage onto the motor when spinning in REV. So if you wire the bulb/lamp to light only on the negative voltage, you get a reversing indication.
But with this method the backup light goes out when the motor is stopped. So if you back up a foot, stop, back up another foot, stop, etc., the light only goes on when physically reversing. One way to think of it is your car's white backup light which comes on when you engage reverse - even if stationary.
To have the backup light stay "on" when stationary the modification and wiring would be more complicated and arguably not for a novice. The parts cost would be modest (maybe $1 or less).
I think you're in a gray-area where to get the feature you want most guys would choose a higher-end E-unit which would include not just connectors to drive a reversing indicator...but also provide constant-brightness headlight and reverse light circuitry so the bulbs don't dim/brighten depending on speed (i.e., track voltage).