I want to build on Tom’s advice on your #3. These are relays that allow you to choose to trigger on either high or low/no voltage. Accordingly, there are jumpers on the relay that must be set. My experience is that they are initially set to high when I received them. As I understand it, this choice allows people using Arduino boards to use both high and low triggers for their programming logic when using multi-relay boards. To provide power to the relay, you first bring both + and - to the screw terminals on the relay board and that will light it’s power-on LED. Subsequently, to use the high option for your circuit #1, the + supply from the wall wart goes the AIU input and then from the AIU output to the IN #1 screw terminal of the relay. The jumper is set to the high position. To use the low option, switch the jumper to low and run the - through the AIU instead of the +.
Here’s a 4 unit relay and I’ve wired the first relay for demo purposes. Jumpers are in high position. Red wire is + and white is -. Green is hooked to the IN #1.
Same relay now hooked to wall wart. Note the LED is now on indicating wall wart is providing power.
The next photo shows the green wire touching the positive terminal on the wall wart and it has triggered the relay as shown by the red LED now lit. For this demo I’ve omitted the AIU, but as I noted above, the green wire would go from the wall wart to the AIU and then from the AIU to the relay in #1.
In the next photo I moved the jumper to low and hooked up the green wire to the - supply on the wall wart and that likewise triggered the relay.
Another photo with a closer view showing the jumper having been changed. I hope you find this helpful. I took you at your word at being a noobie. I’ve learned a lot from this forum and continue to do so as there are so many good people willing to share.