I might not be thinking clearly, right in the middle of my 8 day, 12 hour night shift :-)
I don't think I can use the decoder outputs and get good smoke, they are intended for lights to begin with. If I use a 5v power supply, the stock resistor would get me 625 milliamps and about 3 watts of power. I would then use a mosfet power switch to turn the smoke on or off using one of the decoder outputs. I will only be using 2 other outputs for the headlight and mars light. If I use the decoder output I would have 16.5v across a 100 ohm resistor for 165 milliamps and 2.7 watts of power and no extra circuit needed to turn smoke on or off. If I use a 2k ohm resistor on the sense line that would put it under the 10 milliamps you quoted me, but my mind can't seem to figure out how that would effect the amps through the smoke resistor - I keep thinking I'm adding parallel resistor circuit which would change the calculations. Now my head hurts and I have to get ready for work, LOL!