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Almost a month has gone by since the last post to this thread. Has anyone heard anything about Nicole? Has anyone who's fluent in Dutch sent her an email with hopes that a family member or friend who doesn't speak English might possibly be able to respond? While I'm optimistic and pray for her recovery and continue having good thoughts and wishes for her recovery, I';ll admit that as time progresses without contact from either Nicole, her friends, or relatives, it's increasingly becoming more disturbing and ominous.  Puts playing with our trains in perspective in the realm of things truly important in life. God speed you Nicole.

I know she had she fought cancer before and was having a recurrence of it as of a year ago. Her forum handle for those who did not catch it means "Not Quiet Dead Yet".

But since its been 2 months since she last signed on and I know several people, including myself, have attempted to send an email to her with no response. I think we will have to assume that the disease has run it's course and she is playing with trains elsewhere,

 

However I do have a friend who is from Brussels, I'll see if I can get her to email on our behalf. Anyone know Nicoles full name?

Last edited by cbojanower
Originally Posted by Hancock52:
Originally Posted by cbojanower:

I think we will have to assume that the disease has run it's course and she is playing with trains elsewhere

I'm glad that someone had the guts to post what I was thinking and to do it in a sympathetic way. Before last month I really did not appreciate what "NQDY" really meant. 

In her last email, she stated that if the latest drug trial did not work, she would not see the end of the year.  Very, very sad.

Originally Posted by cbojanower:

....  Anyone know Nicoles full name?

I was hoping someone knew her full name .... and what city she lives in.

 

Each day I come to OGR, I check her profile ...hoping that she had at least logged in to read the forum.

 

Nicole sure has an effect on a lot of people here. I'm one.

We hope for the best but must also prepare for and accept the worst. Nicole has not posted in quite a while. This would seem to indicate an unfortunate occurrence. How can we not miss Nicole's cheerful posts, her love of trains, and her unique sense of humor. The O gauge Guy from Australia (a forum sponsor)is a world traveler and knew Nicole personally. He might be the person to ask.

Originally Posted by Chris Lonero:

She was living in the Netherlands.The last E-Mail I spoke with her telling her my wife has some friends there.   That was a while ago and I fear the news is not good.  Very sad.

Yes Chris you're right, i sent her something a few years back and I remember the package said

Holland in the Netherlands. This is so sad, she's such a great person. I really hope she's okay

 

Alex

Originally Posted by Bob Severin:
In her last email, she stated that if the latest drug trial did not work, she would not see the end of the year.  Very, very sad.

If this has happened, sure it will make us sad for a while. Nicole isn't in pain any longer. IMHO She's the lucky one....In a far better place surrounded by peace, love, joy and complete understanding of what eternal life really is.

 

                          God Bless,  

                           "Pappy"                           

 

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Yes, but it only means her account was logged on at that time. She did not make a post, and it could have been anyone such as a relative checking her account. Obviously we hope for the best, but given her condition and the fact that no one has heard from her for close to a year now, it's best not to drum up any false hopes. She certainly didn't seem like the type of person to just suddenly drop the entire forum like a sack of potatoes, not willingly anyway.

 

If she is still alive and well, she will eventually let us know. If not, then we can only say a prayer and move on.

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