At this point I would use a match before using a cold heat solderer - it will be less frustrating.
I found that they do not work well when they work at all. Received one as a gift and replaced it under warranty a couple of times before deciding even that wasn't worth the time and trashing it. Tried it on all kinds of projects from simply soldering two wires together (sometimes worked) to soldering wires to pcb (never worked).
They eat batteries quickly as well.