Like most on this forum, I started out with a "toy" train set (actually my father's Marx 6" tin set) and grew from there. I received my first Lionel FA freight set for Christmas a few years later (it was a used set, but I didn't care), and it grew from there as I earned money mowing yards, etc. to add more cars and a small steam engine. Trains took a back seat (but were not forgotten) while in college, and then when I got out of school and got a job, I started getting some of the postwar and MPC Lionel I'd always wanted, but couldn't afford (e.g., Berkshire, F3s, Budd cars, etc.).
It was shortly after that that Williams made a scale sized PRR K4 and I was hooked on the scale sized 3-rail steam engines trains. I sold most of my "semi-scale" Lionel, K-Line, MTH, etc. (although I kept a few sentimental favorites) and started acquiring Williams, Weaver, 3rd Rail scale PRR engines and Lionel, MTH, K-Line, Atlas scale freight and passenger cars.
Then with marriage and kids, I purchased a Christmas engine and cars for under the tree. The scale train buying slowed down (money went to family, etc.), but I did continue to add some "toy" items for the kids each year (Disney themed [we're also Disney fans], Christmas, Hershey set for wife).
Now with little grandkids coming over, I'm setting up the "toy" trains again. Just this past weekend I set up a "double figure 8" layout for them and was running a K-line GG-1 (non-scale version) and some Lionel O27 passenger cars.
While the beautiful scale items sit in their boxes safely stored on shelves in the basement, the "toys" are getting played with and I'm enjoying them again like I did a child (although this time with the help of grandkids and not my brother).
I'm considering selling off the scale items since they really aren't "bringing me happiness" and having fun with the "toys." Oh, I'll probably keep a PRR K4 and set of matching passenger cars, but can't really see a reason to just store the rest of them -- I figure someone should be enjoying them.
Just wondering if anyone else has made this same type of journey?