I'm not surprised that you haven't lost traction tires and think what you have been doing is perfectly fine and that you can continue.
Here's why: The engines may run at different speeds when run light, but when pulling together the efforts of the individual motors even out as they all contribute to pulling the load. It is only when the engines have fundamentally different operating characteristics, like very different gearing or speed control, that problems arise. An example perhaps would be coupling a can-motored engine to an AC open frame motor or a non-speed controlled engine to one that is operating under speed-control, or two speed-controlled engines that are not closely matched in speed. Speed control can gum up the works because instead of allowing the motor to work by effort it commands it to run a set speed regardless of effort, thus setting the stage for engines to fight each other rather than work together. But assuming, as it appears, that these all have the same basic design and motors and have no electronic speed control, the operating parameters are close enough that you should be able to continue triple-heading your engines.
The thing to look for is not different speeds when running light, but whether your engines pretty much start and stop together without too much straining or wheel slippage when coupled together. As long as they are starting and stopping pretty much together without the wheels spinning or any obvious strain (and that's what I would expect with basically the same model), you are OK. Once under way the different individual engine speeds don't matter as the motors all do a little more or a little less work together sharing the load. That's basically what's happening in a dual motored engine anyway-- MTH PS2 and PS3 diesels actually "speed control" the rear motor only -- the front one runs faster or slower on its own depending on load. People ran conventional traction-tire equipped diesels this way for years without problems, and so can you. (Much as I hate them, removing them is said to create different problems).
You might see one engine nudge or tug against the others when you first apply power but as long as the wheels don't slip or spin and the consist soon after moves out together, you're in good shape. For these same reasons, the individual engines' order in the consist doesn't really matter. Load is load, and the effort will even out. Even some of my PS3 diesels running under DCS control will gently "kick" the unit just ahead as the consist starts to move out.
RM