If there's one thing that seems to get on my nerves more than anything else when playing with my trains, it's the couplers.
I like to run long trains and engines that have great pulling power. Unfortunately, even though the engine is up the long haul, the couplers, whether on the engine or the cars, are not.
Due to the huge amount of different manufacturers and methods of assembling the couplers, it's no surprise that some hold up a lot better than others, but sometimes even the overall best design flukes.
For example, I have a Lionel 18018 Southern Mikado from 1992. It's an excellent puller - I have had it pull 35 cars with minimal struggle - but sometimes when running over rough track on others' layouts and at faster speeds with a load at 20 or so cars, the tender coupler pops open. I might consider replacing the plunger coupler for a more robust Postwar solenoid coupler or another method.
This isn't just a thing for older products, I have had more than a few more recent cars and engines that have their couplers pop open unwanted. Even numerous scale cars have couplers that seem noticeably flimsier that contrasts the sturdiness of the car itself. I figure that if trains being produced today are supposed to pull realistically long consists, their couplers should be up to the challenge.