Like many of you I began with a train stater set. Best deal for the money I was told- and exactly so.
Then I asked, what do I do next? Your replies; build a layout! Started on a 5'x9' dining room table. (now running a 10' x 11' around the room wide shelf layout with an island in the middle)
Then, I noticed that acquiring new "stuff", you know, a la the song lyrics, "Kicks just seem to get harder to find" seemed to keep my enthusiasm for the hobby going. Rolling stock, engines, people, buildings, trees, bridges, and etc., - it didn't matter what I bought as long as I picked up something new every month.
Then, I realized that I had too much "stuff" on, in, under, and around my layout. So, I started to pare down to what I was "really going to run or display"... I used some of the $$$$ proceeds to improve my layout. I added a $400 building - beautiful, some pictures on the wall, and a shelf to display "other" gauge trains.
At this point it dawned on me that the constant improvements and additions were superseding the actual running of trains as my main point of focus. Now, I have gone from two to four trains, if you count my trolley as one, and run them at every opportunity.
My initial outlay for the MTH train set was around $275. Now, small compared to many of you, I have just over 10K's in the hobby.
I have taken a little mental inventory of my psychology of the hobby an have concluded that two things keep me going, change and the admiration of on-lookers. One important aspect of model trains that I lack and greatly envy among you is that there is no local train club or camaraderie to be had anywhere near where I live.
Population of county: less than 6,000
Largest town: 600
Traffic lights in county: 1
Fast food in county: 0
Trains stores: Nearest is 100 mile round trip
Well, you get the idea.
I wonder if any of you have realized a pattern or change in patterns regarding your participation in the hobby like a I have? Ultimately, I know what the answer is, "It is your railroad. Do what makes you happy!"
And so I will...