I may have shared this on the Forum before, but my wife said something to a friend of ours that I thought was both funny and complimetary: "being married to Arnold is like being married to 5 different men."
Tlmy wife's remark is a reference to my numerous hobbies, which I tend to get absorbed into one at a time, then switching to another. They incude: O Gauge trains, golf, archery (target shooting with recurve bow); songwriting (a rich cup of tea of a hobby that for me is very meaningful but hard work), and singing and playing guitar.
This cycle of hobbies has worked for me while earning my living as a lawyer/mediator. When I make a little money at my profession, hobby-related activity is a nice reward and I feel great doing it.
I'm not sure I will enjoy any of these hobbies if I completely retire from my profession. In my case, I realistically believe I am not good enough at any of them to make any serious money. If I was good enough at a hobby to make serious money, I would be very happy doing it.
This is why my long term plan is to work at my profession part-time, which I'm beginning to do as I approach age 70.
A cousin of mine who is a few years younger than me once said that our fathers were provider dudes. I identify as a provider dude, feel good about myself financially contributing to my family, and suspect that many of our Forum friends think of themselves the same way.
I congratulate all of you folks who have adjusted well to retirement, and it is heart warming to know that model railroading may have helped you do that. Arnold