Who says you have to convert your whole fleet to Kadees?
I do! Mainly because they work better and look better.
I would recommend having a few "transition" cars with kadees on one end, and the traditional, oversized coupler on the other end.
I started out that way, and then discovered that the claws STILL failed.
Then you can take your time converting your fleet over or only do only the rolling stock you want to. This also lets you leave the operating couplers on engines / tenders if you want to keep them or cars you are worried about maintaining the originality of.
Ridiculous, in my opinion. I don't purchase locomotives and rolling stock to worry about "maintaing originality". I purchase stuff to OPERATE! The kadee couplers on the rear and fronts of the steam locomotives, as well as the few diesels I have with fixed pilots, look and work all the time.
It is very time consuming to convert over, but as many will tell you that its worth the effort for looks and reliability, and time consuming is part of the hobby in itself.
Have you ever performed an "up-grade" to Kadee couplers? Why do you think that it is "time consuming"? Once you have the shims of various thicknesses, the various screw sizes, and the Kadee coupler sets, it really is pretty simple to up-grade MTH, Atlas, Weaver, and even some Lionel freight cars.
It is usually a one way conversion as often the old coupler part of the truck gets destroyed in the process that can only be restored by a complete truck replacement.
Will I convert my entire fleet over? No way.
Well, THAT is your choice.
May be a few choice cars and along with some transitional cars. Its not for everyone, but it does look better and I get why many scale guys and hi-railers go for it.
It must be a LOT more popular than you believe, since even Lionel, the "last hold-out", is offering their latest scale freight rolling stock with Kadee compatible mounting pads. Thus, there must be something to the 3-Rail SCALE movement!