I guess he missed that part of the vows where he promised to love, honor, and obey. Or he missed the lesson about that pesky 8th Commandment.
Would you do business with someone who steals from the most important person in his life?
Would you stay married to a woman who tells you how much of the common wealth you can spend?
These are alien concepts to me, and every time someone brings up this topic, I wonder what kind of people populate this country.
And before hitting the "FLAME" button on your computer, the full disclosure clause is as follows: I am not wealthy, by any stretch. When I retired, my wife said "Go out and buy any sports car you want. Don't worry about the cost. We'll figure out how to pay for it. You deserve it." I took her out to dinner instead, and we used the money to pay for the luxuries...soap, toilet paper and potatoes.
When I go to York, (I've been 54 times) I take $500 of OUR money with me. Sometimes I bring it back, and sometimes I hit the ATM in the parking lot outside the Red Hall for another 500.