In the past I have adapted Kadee's to replace the dummy coupler on steam locos for double heading. I recently purchased some of the newer Kadee type Atlas couplers. Can't remember the part no. . You can purchase just the couplers. They come in a 4 pack. I'm guessing to upgrade their older couplers. The real advantage to these is the have a longer shank. The Kadee's you are committed by design as to where you can drill the hole. You will still need to do a lot of filing. I believe the newer style Kadee couplers have to thin of a shank to drill the proper hole. It seems a #43 bit is close. A drill press helps keep the hole straight. If you flip the coupler over you will see a line. Center punch this. Use about a 1/8 shim and the coupler should rest flat on your drill press.
You can see below the difference in length.
To help give you a little more wiggle room. You can file a little relief right behind the coupler head. You only need to take a litt off. When done. Cut behind the hole and clean it up with a file and test fit it.
On the bench. I'm working on a K-Line Mikado. Matches the height gauge perfect. I have a small roster. The Legacy Lima Berkshires and the NYC Mohawks are pretty much dead on as well. Assume most must be but I'm sure there are a few that are off. Works well with a freight type pilot. On passenger locos. You made need to drill the hole father back. I know my MTH Hudson's are off as far as height. If you were doing a designated doublehead. You could always adjust the height on the lead engines tender.
The last pic shows how much the coupler can pivot.
Lots of great steamers out there now that are capable of running at the same speed with multiple rd. nos. being offered. Doubleheads or pushers on the rear are really cool looking. This coupler seems to mate with the standard 3 rail coupler. I have no way of testing. In case you don't want to give up your coil coupler just yet.