...So when making up a train, it's desirable for the engine (or lead locomotive in a consist of engines) to be facing forward...
Not necessarily. It depends on the situation. And again, what is the definition of "forward?"
I once worked a yard that was built on a long, gentle curve. From the end where we worked this yard, it was a right-hand curve when looking into the yard. This was back in the era of hand signals, so I had to be able to see the guys on the ground. If I had a locomotive facing forward into the curve, the operating controls were on the INSIDE of the curve. In that situation, we had an easy day. I could always see the guys on the ground just sitting normally in the seat. In this situation, "forward" was when I was shoving cars into the track, and "reverse" was when I was pulling the cars out of the track.
On the other hand, if I had a locomotive turned so the controls were on the side towards the OUTSIDE of the curve, we had a long, difficult day. I would have to sit sideways in the seat in order to look back for the signals. The guys on the ground had to constantly re-position themselves far away from the track to get into a position to signal me, then go back in close to the cars to pull a pin, connect an air hose, or do whatever they had to do. In this situation, "forward" was when I was pulling the cars out of the track, and "reverse" was when I was shoving cars into the track.
It was a royal pain to work that yard with an engine turned the wrong way.