The station has nothing to do with it. What you want to adjust/regulate is the power to the blocks leading in & out of the station stop block. You could use one rheostat on either side, but usually you can dial in just one to provide an easement current for both ends, making the train appear to coast in to the control block gently, and accelerate out gradually.
There is nothing wrong with the diode method, but using a rheostat gives you a very quick and tactile/visual method of adjustment, on the fly, without having to trial & error different diode selections, whether by moving a clip/wire or twisting a rotary switch. You will need to make adjustments with either system for different locos & consists.
Oh yeah, & those rheostats look really cool too.