Have you asked Scott Mann (3rd Rail) about this? He seems to be quite responsive to concerns regarding his products. Warranted, or not....manufacturers should be given (courtesy?) the first chance to respond to a problem with their products....IMHO, of course.
This might be an unfortunate by-product of overseas manufacturing and its fluid nature....sometimes the change in source requires revisiting some old 'learning curve' issues about things we taken for granted as standard practice/design......like lobster-claw couplers, etc. Tooling/expertise in China is sometimes not a stable investment for a manufacturer. There's not a lot of proprietary technology (?) left in lobster-claw O gauge couplers.....cloning designs is the modus operandi. And, yet, there ARE subtleties about the design/materials that can make/break a seemingly ho-hum item...like lobster-claw couplers. Etc., blah, blah.
Tiny rubber bands? Sometimes they're the Band-Aid of couplerdom,,,,,at least to keep the train all together!
Frustrating, I know.....