The number indicates the angle of the switch or turnout; the larger the number, the more gradual the turnout; for a #4, it takes 4 inches of track for the rails to separate 1 inch. For a #6, it would take 6 inches, and so on.
Ross switches (both their traditional line and the "Rossplate" line) mate with traditional tubular track. The Rossplate switches are the same height as tubular track, so they will mate perfectly. The traditional Ross switches with the wooden ties are a lower profile and therefore require special pins and shims under the switches for them to mate with tubular track.
With that said, the switches are compatible with tubular track. The real issue is compatibility with the trains. If you're running modern trains, you'll be ok; if you're running prewar tinplate, the trains and Ross switches aren't compatible. This is straight from Steve B. himself; I've had many conversations with him about this, as recently as a year ago, and I got the impression that there are no plans to build switches that work with prewar trains with the deeper-flanged wheels.