Phil,
The engine has a 3 volt battery and the charger you have should work fine with it. Charge the battery overnight before attempting to restore sounds, as described below.
If you operate with DCS,use: Menu/Advanced/Reset Engine Feature Reset to bring sounds back.
If you operate conventionally, use 1 whistle press followed by 5 bell presses to do a transformer reset. Use 1/2 second presses with 1/2 second passes in-between. If successful, you should get 2 whistle toots.
Regarding the lurching, check to see if a traction tire has come off and is binding. Does this happen at all speeds or just when going below a few miles per hour?