I suggest something more than 4.5V DC as your low-voltage bus. Then use inexpensive adjustable DC-to-DC step down modules. Note Mike Wyatt's post; most guys find Menards buildings look better when driven by, say, 4.0 to 4.3V - in other words less than the fixed 4.5V DC from a Menard's power adapter. The adjustable step down modules are about $1 (eBay, free shipping from Asia) if you don't mind some light soldering...or for about $2 you can even get one with a built-in voltmeter and screw-terminal connectors. Example shown below - in this case dialed in to 3.0V.

The Menards 4.5V 5A adapter appears to be $20 MSRP. That adapter provides "only" 22.5 Watts of DC power. For less than half that price you can easily find DC adapters providing more than double the power. For example, I've posted about 90 Watt laptop chargers that have selectable DC output voltage that go for less than $10 on eBay (free shipping). Here's one that you select 1 of 7 DC voltages between 12V-24V DC. PC power supplies you might scrounge for free from a retired PC will have 12V DC output with gobs of power.

As others point out, there are decisions/choices to be made with distribution - connectors, cables, adapters, terminal strips, or just twist wire-nuts! But I find it useful to first settle on the configuration.
Separately, to your point about estimating your actual power requirements. Over time various guys have reported in on actual power for specific Menards buildings. Unfortunately, I don't think the info has been consolidated.
I believe the smallest building uses only 2 LEDs, and yet there are buildings with hundreds of LEDs! So the requirements are indeed all over the map.
There are many ways to do the math with respect to Volts, Amps, Watts, etc. But like your own home lighting, I like to think in terms of Watts. All the reports here on OGR suggest Menards buildings use ~50 mW (0.05 Watts) per LED. So their small 4.5 Watt adapter (4.5V, 1A) can power around 100 LEDs while their large 22.5 Watt adapter (4.5V, 5A) can power several hundred. And using the adjustable step down modules, you can dial down the brightness to, say, 25mW per LED and double the # of LEDs.
