Episode 12....Epilogue:
Before I launch into the "end of the story", let me say how great it was to see so many of you at York and to receive your kind reaction to the "saga of the house". Also, thanks to all of you who have commented favorably on the story here on the Forum as it has unfolded, and who have endured this therapeutic act of stress dumping on my behalf!
Conclusion: When we returned from our vacation with the Marinaris, all that was left to do, and this was no small task, was to manage the completion of the cabinet makers' installation, and prepare for the unenviable job of moving the household 5 miles across town from Superior to Broomfield after nearly two decades in one house, and then get the old house rented. As most families do, we had accumulated a ton of stuff in those 20 years! Trust me, the most normal human reaction under such circumstances is PROCRASTINATION! Besides all the household effects, I had accumulated a ton of trains, many of which were un-boxed and out on the Bear's Bare Bones RR 16'X24' layout! Moving all that was going to be a daunting proposition.
When my brother in law and I had built the simple tabletop layout back in '97, it had never occurred to me at the time that I would ever move again. In retrospect, that is understandable. So, my main concern was to build a table that would support as many big diecast steamers as my budget could supply. The subroadbed was 3/4" plywood. The supporting structure was composed of 1X4 and 2X4 bracing and 4X4 legs. The seven component tables were screwed together and the whole thing weighed a figurative ton. I had originally laid four concentric loops of 1/2" homemade Homasote roadbed designed to be interconnected by Ross #6 switches. Before all the track was laid, I came to the realization that eventually I wanted more room and an around-the-room track plan layout, so I stopped at just two loops of Gargraves Phantom flextrack interconnected on both sides of the ovals with Ross switch crossovers. So, the question was, should I tear up the track, salvage what I could, and demolish the tables for building the next layout and scrap the rest?
Meanwhile, back at the (new) ranch, the cabinet guys had taken forever, a couple of months, but were finally in the home stretch. I couldn't really complain much, because I had put them off every time the lender had promised they were ready to close and then reneged yet again. The cabinet guys had other jobs to install so they were fitting mine in as best they could. Nevertheless, excuses for not moving yet were fast disappearing. Then, I got the wild idea of installing crown molding in the new house before we moved in. 920 linear feet of the stuff and nearly another month later, I had finally run out of excuses for calling the movers!
I had had a "For Rent" sign in the front yard of the old house since the beginning of July, but so far only nibbles, since I couldn't fully commit to a change of possession date yet until the new house was fully ready. Waiting for the cabinet guys to finish, I had eaten up the two month cushion before I would be facing the prospect of making two mortgage payments without any offsetting rent coming in to cushion the blow. That was turning up the heat a bit as the money clock continued to tick.
My buddies from the Colorado Toy Train Group (CTTG) had generously volunteered to help me pack the trains and get them ready to move. We had three train packing "parties" in the old basement. I planned to move them myself since I didn't want to trust the movers with my most precious material possessions, as I'm sure you all would understand!
The movers packed and transported all the household effects to the new house, and we spent the first night in our new digs, exhausted and wondering if this was all worth it. Jophie still loved the house and as she got unpacked and settled in, she really started to enjoy the newness of it and the fantastic views of the mountains.
I still had not resolved the question of what to do with the BBBRR layout. At a midsummer meeting of the CTTG, I had volunteered our new house for the annual Christmas and winter holiday party. The CTTGers who were helping me pack the trains urged me to dismantle the layout with their help and move it to the new house, reassemble it, lay two additional loops of track on the previously unused roadbed for a total of four loops of track, and have the whole thing up and running in time for the Christmas party on December 15th. It made some sort of crazy sense to me, so I said, "Why not?!). I still had misgivings about the decision, because I didn't want an operational table layout to become a subliminal excuse for not starting on my new layout, but I also figured it might be a couple of years before I could get started on constructing the new layout, and I still wanted to be able to run and test trains. So, I committed to the plan.
Two guys from CTTG and I took up all the track that traversed more than one module, carefully marking it for re-installation on the relocated layout. A Sawsall was used to carefully cut through the Homasote roadbed so we could take the layout apart into its seven component module tables. The movers showed up again. Before we could move the modules, my rental property handyman and his assistant had to remove the sliding glass doors from both the old and new basements because the modules wouldn't fit through the slider halves of either doorway! It was quite an operation!
Meanwhile, another buddy of mine with occasional help from the CTTG, used my Expedition and his large camper-top-covered-bed pickup, to move all the trains to the new house in phases. I had previously employed a concrete contractor to pour a sidewalk around one side of the house and down to the sliding door, and enlarging the patio pad out back. We staged the trains in one of the 3 bays of the new garage, and then with a hand truck, over a period of a couple of weeks, I moved all the trains down and into the new basement. A few more plastic storage shelf units added to what I already had, made enough shelf space for all the boxed up trains to fit in one end of the spacious new 2,800 sqft basement. I'm embarrassed to say that it gives the place the look of a hobby shop storeroom!
The CTTG guys continued to work on rebuilding the layout and the three of us re-laid all the original track and switches and added the two additional loops of Gargraves Phantom flextrack and interconnecting crossovers. We got it all done and DCS/TMCC debugged in time for the CTTG Christmas party, with three days to spare! So the entire moving evolution, counting the installation of the new built-ins and nearly a thousand feet of crown molding had been accomplished in just under five months! By the way, with the generous help of a couple of the other CTTG wives, the Christmas sit-down buffet dinner party was a roaring success. We had about 60 members and their guests in attendance and the most popular banquet tables were in the basement where people could eat and watch the trains at the same time.
Phew! What a project! From the initial dream of a bigger basement with a nice home attached in which to house the relocated "War Department", the whole project took about eight years from start to finish. It involved buying another house in the same neighborhood as a hedge against rising prices, and keeping the construction a secret from my bride for over six stress-filled months.
The climactic event that intrigued Susan Deats, and other readers of the "saga", and which occurred on April 11th, was the successful renting of the old house to a wonderful couple with two beautiful little girls, 3 and 1. I had been incredibly picky about prospective tenants and had a couple of close calls that in the short term would have eased my financial burden, but in the long run would have been a nightmare, such as a few well-heeled entrepreneurs attracted to the Boulder area by the lure of the recently legalized pot industry in Colorado!
So, you might ask, what did I learn from all this that might be of use to you, my fellow toy train goobers and model railroaders? What follows is in the "for what it's worth" department....
o The desire to build your dream layout can be an incredibally powerful motivating force. Beware....it can threaten the underpinnings of your otherwise normal and stable life in ways you could never imagine!
o A dream converted to a concrete goal, and backed by a well defined plan of action for its achievement, can be accomplished if you are willing to commit yourself to it and follow through with dogged determination. In my case, this has been proven true time and again throughout my life. Big goals can carry equally large risks and exact a heavy price, but they can be achieved if you visualize and believe in them.
o Don't ever move! (kidding of course) But seriously, you may think you've bought your last house, but the truth of the matter is that the average person moves about every 4-6 years throughout his or her life. Building your dream layout is a laudable goal and achievement, but just remember that if you aren't over 60 yet, build it so that it can be disassembled and moved in reasonably small component pieces. I have lots of clients who move here or away from here chasing their grandkids! Dave and Ted Hikel have developed a system for building hard shell geological scenery with a built-in hidden system for taking it apart without destroying it if you ever need to move it. Check the Forum, I'm sure Dave has shared the methodology here before. Their system is ingenious, and practical.
Lastly, and unrelated to the accumulation of trains and the building of movable layouts, is the idea of periodically getting rid of stuff you don't need or want anymore. Those of us who experienced any of the Great Depression, or were raised by parents who did, often have a built-in "pack rat" mentality which causes us to horde things that we think we might need again if times get tough. Fight that urge and avoid the trauma of a move after 20 years of accumulating stuff in one house that Jophie and I just went through this past year!
o Don't build a house without telling your spouse about it in advance and arriving at mutual agreement. In my case, I burned up a lot of candle, sweating it out while the house was being built. If you can't convince her that it's a good idea to build or buy a different home, then maybe you can figure out how to expand the space that you're already in with an addition or an outbuilding, or change to a smaller scale like HO or N to create the amount of railroad real estate you want in an existing space that can't otherwise be expanded practically. The concept of "It's easier to ask forgiveness than to obtain advance permission." was not really meant to apply in a marriage!
o Don't paint yourself into a corner by overestimating your future earning power or income from investments, etc. If you end up in a situation where you are financially overextended, the joy of having the home you want with the railroading space you desire may be overwhelmed by the anxiety you'll experience by taking too big a financial risk. It's hard for me to give that piece of advice, because I believe in taking calculated risks to achieve heartfelt goals, but everyone has a different comfort level with betting on the future. I say "go for it" and you may say, "You're nuts, I'm taking the prudent course and modifying my dreams!" We're probably both right, but you have to do what's comfortable for you.
o My dad was a survivor of the Great Depression. As a result, he was very cautious with his money. I don't mean that he was a miser, just careful to keep a big rainy day fund and put the fun off until retirement. Dad hardly ever gave me a piece of advice. He believed that his kids should have plenty of rope. But on his death bed, he broke his normal reticence about giving advice and told me this, "Son, it's fine to be careful about finances, and I don't advise you against that, but I also say to you, don't put off all of the fun things you've always wanted to do until your retirement years, because you can't predict how many years you may have left." I took that to heart, perhaps too much so. Any of you that know me, know that I'm a "party animal" and love to have a good time with friends and family. They say in retirement planning, it would be easy to do if you knew for sure just how many years you have left. There's always a great deal of uncertainty about that. A lot of us in the toy train hobby are approaching or already in our "golden years". So my unsolicited advice is, don't put off building that dream layout, or taking the actions necessary to make it a reality. That's my advice to you and to myself.
When it comes to building my own dream layout, I realize that I'm in a race with the Grim Reaper. I resolve to get started sooner rather than later so that I'll get it "done" (whatever that is, for it varies for each individual) and so that I will have time to enjoy it with my train pals before I "kick the bucket".
So, there you have it. I had intended to end this saga with the pain of moving to the new house, but I couldn't resist throwing a little philosophy in at the end. You can take it for what it's worth and play your own cards the way you see fit. I wish you all the fulfillment of your fondest dreams, especially as they apply to having your own dream layouts.
PhilosophicalBear