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What a shock. I never met Barry but he and I exchanged emails last year. I introduced myself to him as being new to DCS and a friend of Marty Fitzhenry's, and he wrote right back saying, "Any friend of Marty's is a friend of mine." It isn't often that people say things like that  anymore, so it really made an impact on me as to the kind of guy he was, even though we never met. This is a huge loss for many people, most importantly his family. To Barry's family, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. 

 

John

Feeling very sad right now, more so after reading all of the posts in this thread.  I feel like a giant hole has opened up, one that no one can come close to filling.  There was only one Barry!  He and I joked many times about my "stupid questions" - he could say that to  me cause we joked about them many times.  Always in fun though, never mean.

Wish I had a better grasp of vocabulary to express how sad I am, and a better way to express my sorrow to his family.

- walt

Mooner posted:

Everything that you need to know about DCS is all in MTH’s “The DCS Companion 3rd Edition!"

Words you came to expect when someone new to the hobby or DCS posted on the forum. This was Barry's advice after freely volunteering a solution to one's problems. I don't know if these exact words will continue to live on, but I suspect the knowledgable response so many veterans of DCS passed along as a tip will be with us for a long time...."just buy Barry's book".

Very good advice to any/all DCS users or potential DCS users because I can honestly say that this book is Barry's "bible" for the DCS operator. He will long be remembered for this important contribution to our hobby. "Just buy Barry's book" remains very good advice!

Last edited by Allan Miller

 Barry was visiting family years ago in MA. Posted on the forum of any train related activities. This was in the early days of DCS and he was becoming well known on the topic. We managed to hook up starting with breakfast with a few other forum members. Layout visits and later in the day. A visit to NE Trains. A truly memorable day. I still have his business card from that day on my wall. A truly great loss to the hobby.

Wow, I am in shock! Having met Barry several times at York, he also invited me to visit his layout in Florida. What a great afternoon, I learned so much from the guru. Always with a quick answer to anything train related. He will be truly missed. My condolences to Cora and the family.

I know you will be starting a new DCS users group up there Barry. May you rest in peace.

Jeff

I am more of a reader than a writer on the forum, I never had the blessing of meeting or speaking to Barry, but I read his book and it is dog eared.  I enjoyed his comments and his insights.  I did not have the chance to meet him but I think that I'm a little envious of those that had and could call him friend.  It is one more reason to cherish both the time we spend in our daily life and the people we meet both in our hobby and our lives. 

I have repeatedly, probably too often, spoken about the warmth and the patience those on this forum have shown each other.  I hope that Barry's family know how much he will be missed even by those he did not know or that he even knew who read his comments.

He managed to brighten our days and our knowledge. 

May his memory be a blessing.

I don't use DCS, but as a regular here it was apparent that Barry was one of those rare forum participants who was "in the business" of model trains with his book sales, but who nevertheless was extraordinarily generous in sharing his knowledge here with anyone who needed it.

Prayers and condolences to his family and many friends.

 

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