Did anybody ever tell you that you look like Freewheelin' Franklin?
I went through the same decision process about 10 years ago when I retired from an international career. Spent several months over a period of three or four years driving around the interior West, finally narrowed it down to a choice among Tucson, Boise, and Albuquerque. All three offered nice scenery and outdoor recreation, reasonable cost of living and real estate, and fairly low taxes. Trains were not actually a consideration, I figured I could play with trains anywhere. I ruled out California because of cost of living, taxes, and gun laws. I had lived in Phoenix for a few years before going overseas. Wasn't interested in going back there due to extreme heat, pollution, congestion, and some problems with access to outdoor recreational areas I had enjoyed back in the 70's.
Here are some pros and cons among the three:
Boise
Pro: Great climate. Warm and dry in the summer, mild winter. It can snow in the morning and be 50 and sunny in the afternoon. Very scenic. Fantastic outdoor recreation year-round. Hiking, river running, skiing, you name it. Friendly. Very cool downtown, but small.
Cons: A small town, a long ways from anywhere. Nearest decent shopping in Salt Lake or Seattle. Non-diverse. A long way from most of my friends and family.
Albuquerque
Pro: Nice climate. Skiing nearby. Easy run up to Santa Fe, a neat place to spend a day or a weekend. Decent outdoor recreation, not as good as Boise but still attractive. Right on major east/west and north/south Interstates.
Con: Kind of gritty. Highest crime of the three finalists. Least scenic of the three. The high altitude moderates the climate, but with the thin air and brilliant sunshine the sun can bake your face while the rest of you freezes.
Tucson
Pro: Very scenic, nice reddish color to the rocks. The Sonoran Desert is the world's greenest and most lush because it has two rainy seasons. Nice vegetation, saguaro cactus, mesquite and palo verde trees. Interesting wildlife - coyotes, bobcats, javelinas, hawks, owls, assorted reptiles. Lots of good places to hike, plus attractions such as the Sonora-Arizona Desert Museum and Saguaro National Park. Convenient to the Mexican border if you like to go to Mexico every now and then. Better shopping than Boise or Albuquerque, but still not great. Reasonably convenient location on I-10, good for me because I have family in Phoenix and an XGF in San Diego. The most upscale of the three, depending on where you live. Hot in the summer, but way cooler than Phoenix where I used to live. Climate is fantastic October through April. Good university, as well as a highly regarded community college where I picked up a part-time teaching job.
Con: Hot in the summer. Lousy skiing; there's a local area but it's only open when it snows. You have to drive up to Flagstaff for half-decent skiing. Downtown is kind of crummy but improving. City government is run by imbeciles and lunatics. Town is really spread out; you burn a lot of gas getting around. Anglo and Hispanic communities are very separate, almost like two different cities. That was a disappointment to me as I am bilingual and used to live in Mexico, I was hoping for more of a blend.
I finally moved to Tucson and I am quite happy here. As far as trains go, we have the Gadsden Pacific Toy Train museum which is kind of a hybrid between a train club and a museum. There's a big 0 gauge layout, plus all the other gauges and an outdoor 7-1/2" gauge loop that will be opening later this year. Phoenix is 2-3 hours away, with an assortment of clubs and train related activities. San Diego is an easy day's drive with an interesting railroad museum in the east county plus the excellent 0 and HO setups in Balboa Park.
Here's a picture of the o gauge part of the toy train museum.
This is the view from my neighbor's balcony, showing my back yard and the Catalina mountain range beyond.
And here's the view from my backyard, during one of our very rare snowstorms.
And finally, a local critter that showed up outside my workshop one fine morning. Gila monsters spend most of their lives underground, but this one was enjoying an excursion in the shade of a mesquite tree.