Having done a few cars in the manner that you describe, I have found that the
newer-design Atlas, MTH/ Lionel and K-line(?) high-end trucks have low bolsters. The earlier high-bolster designs were in keeping with the PW thinking.
I like Weaver trucks well enough; it's their couplers that don't work well. The die cast
couplers can work better than the plastic, but the uncoupling disk can hang so low
that it will short out on small irregularities (U/C section) and often has little room to
move.
The early Atlas plastic trucks were accurate and track well - I would not call them
"junk" at all. Weight the cars; the couplers mate pretty well, and look no worse than
any O-gauge coupler. (The old Pola trucks/couplers are hard to deal with.)
I have often put hi-rail wheel sets in 2-rail trucks, and often a Weaver coupler will
fit nicely on the truck bolster. A little fiddling may be needed; case by case basis.
I love the old 2-rail "O" stuff; it can be inexpensive and historically interesting.
I just this week finished 3-railing and old wood/card stock/brass boxcar that I got
for cheap at auction. Looks pretty good among all the modern production. It had a
high floor and a lot of washers atop the Walthers lead-casting trucks that came on it, so it took to the earlier Lionel high-bolster die cast trucks very well, and sits nice and low.
Glad to see that others like the out-of-the-box (box? what box?) thinking.