Okay. This is an amazingly one-sided conversation. How many of you that have posted above have delivered freight for a business? The answer is pretty obvious... I'm fortunate to have had the pleasure of delivering freight for 3 years in my distant past, and believe me, there's another side to the story!
150 boxes in the back of the truck. 10 hour shift.
1st stop: gift store on main street. Owner thinks beside delivering the packages, it's your job to open the packages and stock their shelves. After some debate you settle to put the packages near where the owner wants them, even though your job is to bring them to the door. It isn't worth the time to argue. Bear in mind there's a timer in the truck telling you and your superiors how much time your taking/wasting at a stop.
2nd stop: Local grocery store with a box of flowers. All freight gets delivered to the back of the store. Ring buzzer. Wait. Wait. Wait. Ring buzzer. Wait. Wait. Timer is still working. Door is answered. Employee won't take flowers, needs to get someone in the floral dept. Wait. Wait. Timer. Floral shows up and informs you that those flowers are important and it took too long to get them...
Next 10 stops go smooth. Customers know the drill. By the way, in a small town, businesses get their stuff first.
11th stop: factory. Shipping and Receiving can't sign for packages. Need to figure out which dept. ordered it and where it goes. Wait for them to figure out who ordered it, and who can sign for it. They're in a meeting...
Lunch: Nope, it took too long to get packages delivered in the morning, now it's time for the dreaded residential deliveries.
1st. residential: 123 Jones St. There's no Jones St. There's a Jones Ave., and A Jones Cir., but no Jones St. Good ole' GPS isn't much help either, just like when you use it sometimes. Luckily you get to drive by the two worst places in town for a delivery driver, grocery stores and schools. If you ever delivered freight, you know what I mean.
The rest of the afternoon is spent ringing doorbells and hoping no one answers and you can leave the package. The last thing you need is the guy that ordered a toy train coming to the door, inspecting the package, then wanting you to stay while he opens it up and inspects the contents for damage that for some reason thinks you, the driver, can file a claim right then and there for him. The driver can't. His job is to drive and deliver. Quickly. Remember the timer?
We haven't even gotten out in the country yet, with the farmers doggy, the muddy roads, or the paranoid customer who thinks anyone coming down his drive is there to take him away, which someone really should.
Finish off the day, finally. Outgoing pick-ups. That usually goes pretty smooth. They know what they're doing, although when your late, and they're late for supper, they're a little annoyed, but usually understanding. Home for the night, and do it all over again the next morning.
I'm sorry your delivery driver isn't leaving your packages where you want them to, or making a mistake, or, sadly, mistreating your package, but sometimes there are reasons why they do what they do, except for mistreating your package. That's just a bad driver.
Have any of you done anything to help your delivery driver out? Maybe make a nice wooden box or something near the mailbox that he/she can put the package in, so he doesn't have to walk the 300 feet to your door? Perhaps understanding he/she is on a schedule and can't help you with a claim, so don't try and make him/her?
There's all kind of people out there, and your delivery driver gets to deal with them all, and their driving skills. It's usually a good paying job, but the timer is always on, and the shareholders want to make money. If they're not damaging your package, cut them a break every once in awhile. You might be the nicest guy in the world, but the guy before you might not have been. My experience, though I actually enjoyed it, made me a good judge of people, and also very leary of them.