The above responses pretty much summarize the approaches. It's pretty easy to bend up your own grabs using the Grandt Line jig. The process entails making the first bend, putting the bent end in the jig hole corresponding to the width you want, then simply folding over for the second bend. To get the dropped version, put the grab in a square jaw vice with the loop up maybe .060" or so, then fold over, and you're done.
P&D Hobby has many detail parts. They make sets of cast brass grabs for F units. These have the little brackets on the ends, and they really look good. The problem is the Lionel F3 body casting has indented their door grabs into channels. The outside of the Lionel grab is flush with the body. To do a proper job these channels should be filled then the new grabs added. That means surgery and probably a repaint.
Jim