I agree unconditionally... fate sometimes causes us to miss out on great opportunities. After all, fate can be a practical Joker with a cruel sense of humor. So I look at my memories of those moments compared against their circumstances. Was it truly a missed opportunity ? Or a case of Fate looking to be cruel ? Many years ago, when we were just starting out, I had an argument with my wife over the last five dollar bill in my wallet... I wanted to buy gas, so I could drive to work & earn my paycheck. But she wanted that five to buy milk & diapers... ( True story folks ) Now if someone had turned up out of the blue, and offered me a standard gauge Blue Comet for five bucks that day; I still would have given that five dollar bill to my wife. Yes... I would agonize over missing a great train set, but I'd never feel I made the wrong decision. Because in the end, something like that really isn't an opportunity. It's really a case where Fate just wants to make you feel bad .
Now if the circumstances were different, and it was a choice between buying that Blue Comet, or a case of beer... And I chose the beer... Then I deserve to feel bad thirty years later. So remember, the next time you lament about your missed opportunities, was it really a case of making the wrong choice... The Blue Comet, or the Beer ? Or was Fate being mean to you that day... The baby, or the gas ? You may feel remorse about those moments. But if you really think about it, you might not need to feel guilty ! That ends today's lesson in philosophy.