Originally Posted by Marty Fitzhenry:
Brian, well stated. Anytime I see any service people in airports coming home I always welcome them and thank them. In my day, that was not the situation.
People who this have their hearts in the right places, but generally, people in the military are ill at ease when people come up and do this. I know it's really uncomfortable when people do it to me. I don't feel I'm on the same level as men like my Uncles on my Dad's side, 3 of which fought in WW2. Or my Mom's brother, who fought in Vietnam.
I once sat at a table at a 303rd Bomb Group (B-17s, WW2) reunion and I was the only one at the table who hadn't earned a Medal of Honor or had evaded capture after being shot down. Talk about a humbling experience!
My point here is, PLEASE don't make a huge deal about someone's service. People who served, in recent years anyway, chose that lifestyle.
I was walking out of the local post office a few weeks ago and an older man (probably Nam era) got out of his car with a Medal of Honor license plate. I stopped, opened the door, and saluted in a way I think would have impressed an Arlington tomb guard. I never asked his name. He looked at me in my civvies but still with the 'right' haircut and said, "Active duty, son?"
"Former Army Captain, sir," I replied.
He smiled, patted me on the shoulder, nodded and then walked on.
Show respect, just don't make a big deal. Those of us who've served are just fine with a smile, thumbs up and moving on by.