I want to thank everyone for your suggestions. Of course with this being only a weekend trip for me, I didn't do everything I intended to. Between the short time, unplanned issues, and having to wait 4 hours to have my rental car exchanged I will have to save some of those things for the next go around.
However, as stated I visited the NJ HiRailers layout and got a personal tour since I was the only one there. That in itself, was worth the trip. I'd like to thank Ben for his hospitality. I could immediately tell how enthusiastic he was to be such an integral member of the organization. I will have to go back.
I also had the privilege of visiting the master builder, Alan Graziano, and his family. As a matter of fact, he was the main reason for the trip. I had to pick up a model he constructed for me, that was too fragile to ship.
More to come on the trip once I get settled and organized. It was a great trip and again proves why this hobby is the best there is...great people.
Dave