Peter, I am a standard tie guy from way back in the 70's. I've never worn a bow tie as an adult, but would not be opposed to such an idea. I did go to the website and I think the prices I saw for the bowties were north of $45.00.
Does that sound about right ?
Steve,
Yes, the Beau Ties bow ties generally start at about $45. For comparison's' sake, Brooks Brothers' bow ties, which I also like, start at $59.50. When you consider the quality of the material—usually fine British & Italian silks, but also wool & cotton—and the fact that they are handmade in the U.S., the price begins to seem reasonable. Treat yourself to one for each season, or maybe one for your birthday, one for Christmas, and one for some other holiday or two, and soon you will have a nice little collection.
Here's the dirty little secret about tying a bow ties: if you can tie your shoelaces, then you know how to tie a bow tie. It's the exact same knot, the only differences are the perspective and the material.
Another tip: a self-tie, or tie-your-own bow tie, which Beau Ties of Vermont call "Freestyle," is not supposed to look perfect. The imperfections of the knot add a bit of individuality, and because it is apparent that you tied it yourself—and most people don't know the afore-mentioned dirty little secret—they are impressed with how talented you are. I hope Peter will forgive me, but in my opinion, I would only suggest wearing a bow tie if it is a tie-your-own.
Like you, I grew up wearing a standard necktie. About seven years ago I started to build what is now a modest bow tie collection. Now I wear both, depending on the venue, and my mood. If you're at all interested in giving bow ties a try, I whole-heartedly encourage you to do so. Your first tie should be a train tie. ;-) But then you might start with a couple of conservative, all-purpose ties, like a navy-with-white-polka-dots, some repp stripe ties, and a not-too-loud paisley, then branch out into more seasonal ties or special holiday ties.
—Matt