It seems like the biggest underlying issue is that even when using Super Mode, the DCS Remotes retain an association from Engine to TIU. It would seem that logically in Super Mode all engines should be associated with all/any TIUs set up in the remote.
If that restriction was removed (eg DCS reprogrammed) then the rules would be simple.
All clubs would set their equipment to Super Mode.
At a show allocate and setup TIU address numbers among clubs.
Each remote for each club set to the TIU numbers allocated to the club.
The computer scientist in me realizes that the true deep issue is that the TIUs are numbered and not Named. Add a name to the protocol between tiu and remote and everything is suddenly simple. The the TIUs and Remotes were known by a (group/super) name like CLUB-A then they could ignore all messages to the wrong name.
Each club could just set their club name as the name for the each remote and tiu. No changes needed when going to a show or from home to club.