I feel your pain Rich! I think I've just about given up correcting folks who use the term "boater" for "sailor". A boater is a straw hat worn by yachtsmen or at political conventions.
And one does not "drive" a boat either, unless it is under sail and they're going to windward. But only in that instance.
Jon
Jon,
I completely disagree with you, I have been a "Boater" for more than 50 years. I might refer to anyone sailing almost any length sailboat as a "Sailor", but in the powerboats, especially under 20' in length we have always used the term "Boater".
My Mom is the original owner of a 1968 Stevens 17' Flat bottom, essentially an "SK" class race hull with recreational seating, it has a Corvette spec'ed 327, with a Forward/ Neutral Crashbox gearbox and a foot throttle, if you said to anyone WE knew that you "Sailed" that boat, you would be Laughed right off the water. When I was younger, my parents were in the Columbia Speedboat Club, and while we never raced our boat, even in the recreational classes, we attended many races, and trust me, the announcers always announced the next boat as "DRIVEN BY" the next driver, and these were serious races, put on by people who knew what they were doing.
My own boat is a 17' Bow-rider, when we are Salmon fishing or Crabbing, if I have to land a fish or tend gear, I will ask my Wife or someone else on board to "Drive", "Take the Wheel" or "Run the Boat" and all understand what I mean.
Heaven knows that I still struggle with teaching my Wife, Step Kids and other Land Lubbers, who didn't grow up around boats and the water, about Bow, Stern, Port and Starboard. At least my Wife has learned "Red Right Returning", and actually understands what it means.
A Family RULE, is that the boat doesn't leave the dock until everyone is wearing their PFD, and so far we have brought everyone back to the shore that has left with us, and even saved one teenager from drowning, when he foolishly tried to swim across a narrow part of a lake that we were canoeing on.
There are times when it is perfectly CORRECT, to use the term "Boater"
Doug