Dave, I was still writing while you were posting.
I plan on using a stick to uncouple cars instead of the "air hoses" on the kadees.
That's kind of what I assumed. Which translates to for the front of a passenger engine, cutting the "air hose" off will not really be too detrimental to operations.
With regard to the Kadee G scale remote coupler system, after I see how it actuates the coupler, it may be useful for some O scale usage. In the Q&A all Kadee said was that for now they were going to support G scale. That wasn't to say that it couldn't be adapted to other scales. I'm thinking steam engines with roomy tenders or something with a little room like a baggage car or caboose.
MTH is so not into American O scale right now, but perhaps the Europeans will demand more and they will have to answer. Some of the European products are so much more advanced than anything being done here right now, that it could be very beneficial.