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Words fail me, so I will borrow some written by a fellow named David a long time ago:

Psalm 121 

121 I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.

My help cometh from the Lord, which made heaven and earth.

He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber.

Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.

The Lord is thy keeper: the Lord is thy shade upon thy right hand.

The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.

The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.

The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.

 

Amen, and I say again:  Amen.

 

I think I met Marty once or twice at York dcs meetings.  He was very kind and light hearted in his interactions, including with me as apparently I was a bit late to have a dcs update performed.  Through all the interactions on the forum he is a very kind and knowledgeable man.  I am sorry to hear this news and will send some extra prayers up tonight for Marty.  God Bless you both.

Dotty,

Grace and peace to you.

You've made the best decisions possible under these terrible circumstances.  No one could have been more caring or a better health care advocate.  We all thank God for your Marty, he has been blessed in so many ways and has blessed us, too.

Prayers ascend for comfort.  The Great Physician will cure all ills and wipe away all tears.

Greg Houser posted:

Dotty,

Thank-you for keeping us updated on Marty.  Like everyone else, this is not the news I hoped to hear.   My hope is that you both are able to take some small comfort in knowing you've both touched many people both near and far and the world is a better place for having the both of you in it.  You both are in all of our continued prayers.  

-Greg

I can't find words that say it better than Greg did. Bless you both and all those you love.

dottyperry posted:

RD, the restricted blood flow to the lower leg is one  reason the scrape doesn’t heal, depressed immune system during chemo is the other. An amputation would also not heal and would likely be reinfected. Chemo can’t be given for a while before and after surgery, which allows the cancer in other parts of the body to regrow. What to do about this  and the original tumor in the leg have  been hashed out by us and the teams together (podiatry, vascular, oncology) for months. Hazards outweigh any benefits. We knew from the beginning that all that could be offered was palliative care, and they’ve done a great job. Now he’s tired of fighting. 

Dotty,

Thank you for taking the time to respond to my dumb question.. when faced with such sad news one often turns to desperate ideas to try and deal and find solutions ... I should have known you would have already exhausted every avenue ..  my heart bleeds..

You are both in my prayers... Gods peace and grace be with you both..

Hi Marty

I only know you through the forum as you invited me to participate. Thank you for your constant timely and sage advice. Our prayers go out to you and Dotty at this time. May the ultimate conductor on this new train you are riding be kind and loving with you.  As you can see through all the many notes and letters you are well loved.

Best Wishes

Duncan

I didn't know Marty as well as many of you did, but I did get to chat with him and Dotty briefly in the restaurant on the fairgrounds at the York meet two or three meets ago.  His hospitality, warmth and helpfulness came through even in such a short meeting - showing that what has been written about him is, if anything, an understatement.  I have no idea whether Marty knew the quotation from Henri-Frédéric Amiel (sometimes used as a benediction at the end of church services) but he certainly lived his life as if he did: 

“Life is short. We don't have much time to gladden the hearts of those who walk this way with us. So, be swift to love and make haste to be kind.”

It seems to me that Marty exemplified that spirit in his wide-open hospitality and generous giving of himself, his knowledge, and his time to all he came in contact with.  I know I felt that wonderful warmth of spirit from him and Dotty at York.  He will leave this world and especially this hobby much better for his being here.  May he find peace and comfort and relief from his pain and may Dotty continue to find the strength to support and care for him.  

Peter Gentieu

 

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Alex, when you presented him with that model of his home, that was obviously a very special moment in Marty’s life. You can see it in the video. I am so glad we have these precious few moments of Marty’s life preserved in this clip.

I did not give credit to whoever shot this video because I have forgotten who shot it! Maybe you can fill in that missing piece of info, lest people think that I shot the video, which I did not.

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Marty and Dotty,

You both seem such a wonderful team. Dotty, prayers continue for strength. I think it beautiful that you are seeing to it that Marty is able to confront this on his terms. Marty, I commend you for having the courage to have fought, and the peace in your heart to know when quality outweighs longevity. May God bless you both. Having never known either of you, praying for you and checking the updates has still made me feel like I have been privy to a most beautiful love story, laden with kindness and gratitude by all who've been so honored that you've shared it with us.

Rich Melvin posted:

Alex, when you presented him with that model of his home, that was obviously a very special moment in Marty’s life. You can see it in the video. I am so glad we have these precious few moments of Marty’s life preserved in this clip.

I did not give credit to whoever shot this video because I have forgotten who shot it! Maybe you can fill in that missing piece of info, lest people think that I shot the video, which I did not.

Rich, I shot the video on my cell phone. Alex planned the project in the spring. I took pictures of the outside of the house and train room and measurements of the outside of the house then sent him the information, so by Alex's open house in August it was finished. As usual, Alex did a GREAT job!  Marty's most prized possession.

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So much so well stated about such a wonderful person that it is difficult to add anything. I was privileged to be a friend of Marty. He and Dotty stayed at our house a number of times and he assisted me in the layout I built in my prior house. One result was the FITZHENRY IRONWORKS twin bridges. One is pictured with my "Trooper" train passing over it. The Trooper train is an unshrouded MTH "J", painted and with LEDs from JDS trains. The picture is from 2013.

Gerry 

 

Trooper Train on Fitzhenry bridge 8-24-13

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Marty & Dottie - May The Lord Almighty Give You Both Grace and Peace.

I pray that all will be well as I am a firm believer in Miracles, and I pray that one will happen for Marty.

I have you both in my daily Prayers, and I pray that The Lord God will cure all.

Again, you are both in my daily prayers for a miraculous recovery.

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