...I know that I can (and will use) GRJs LED board, but want to try rolling my own too. I found the following parts (I don't mind spending more $$ as I don't want to wait from orders from overseas to show up) I not worried about capacitors or pots to control the brightness in the cars. Let me know if this stuff will work and/or suggestions.
1. Voltage Regulator
When you say roll-your-own, do you mean duplicating GRJ's circuit (which he posted above) or are you imagining other lighting features other than simply driving the 12V DC LED strip?
Point being the "Voltage Regulator" IC chip you refer to is actually being used as a Current regulator in GRJ's design. This may be tomato-tomahto to some, but when GRJ's board was in the design phase, there was some back-and-forth as to which way to go (Voltage mode vs. Current mode). Your IC chip can be configured either way. If you are only going to drive the 12V LED strip (modified as needed for reduced-voltage conventional operation) by all means use GRJ's board.
But if by roll-your-own you mean to provision for other electronic features in your passenger car, you may want to consider configuring the regulator IC chip in Voltage mode which costs you a 1-cent resistor. You might want to add, say, a blinking/flashing light module, or some small animation motor, or remote-controllability to turn lights on/off in sync with the engine's cab light, or you get the idea.
In my interpretation of history, after GRJ unleashed his board on the world, there was no need for anyone to re-invent the wheel. So when I see someone/anyone asking about rolling-their-own, I'm curious to know what they have up their sleeves!