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 Yesterday we had 20 guests visit us. I was expecting 20 men who had recently started a model RR club, have already started laying FasTrack, and wanted ideas for doing scenery, adding buildings, some accessories, etc. They had contacted me a few weeks ago, and had set yesterday as the day to visit.

 They showed up in a bus at mid morning, 20 people, about half and half men and women. The youngest of the bunch was 75, and the oldest 92. As it turned out, the person responsible for starting the club was one of the ladies. She had traveled by train in several countries, including China, and loved it. So she thought that this would be a good activity for they sort of retirement community.

 They had a blast looking at my layout, and Judy and I couldn’t get over their enthusiasm. None of them were model railroaders, so they were starting their layout essentially from scratch, and wanted to learn everything – from the brands of the buildings, people, trees, etc., to where to buy them. They had made a lunch appointment, and thus were able to stay for about two hours, and we just scratched the surface.

 And yes, they behaved just as little kids. They pushed every button for the accessories, some of which I should have told them to wait for me, and went everywhere. Many of them had canes, and one had a walker, but neither canes nor age stopped any of them from venturing around.

 Unfortunately, one of the ladies fell backwards while taking pictures, knocked another lady who was behind her, both were in front of the Judy Jane Trestle bridge, and the bridge stopped their fall and took the hit. I did not know how sturdy the trestle was, and only three short sticks broke. It took me but a few minutes to fix it. Neither of the ladies were hurt at all; and this was a great relief.

 At the end, I showed them how I can open the access doors and navigate under the layout while sitting on one of the dollies I made for this purpose. One of the ladies, the tiniest one, asked if she could go with me. I let her used the dolly I had made for our neighbor, Rebecca. This old girl squatted down, sat on the dolly and away we went. She then climbed the 3-step ladder I have set up at one of the open access areas, and waved at everyone while they took her picture. (I am waiting on those pictures.) When she came down from the ladder, she said, “I bet I am the oldest person to ever go up there.” “And just how old are you?” I asked her. “I am 92” she said, with a grin from ear to ear.

 Now I have had a 3-year old girl and a 92-year old girl go up the ladder at this hatch!

 What a wonderful experience!

Alex

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Fantastic!   With people working longer nowadays, people are becoming aware that some up in age have a lot of life in them (this hobby better hope that is true, since its participants are reported to be aging) and getting more respect.   Activity will help them live longer, so that is a very good thing.  We all hope to get to those ages, in good health and still active.

Friends, I really appreciate your thoughtful comments. 

Funny, other than for a few exceptions, Judy and I, at 72 and 70, invariably are the oldest when people come to visit us. We were the 'young kids' last Tuesday, and we were so glad to see these older folks have such a positive attitude, that any concern one may have had about growing old, vanished. 

I am sure that it was not just the trains that gave them the motivation to be so upbeat, but it certainly is playing a big role. Nothing like planning and building a train layout to keep a person mentally engaged, and as physically active as possible.

Thanks!

Alex

PS. I will certainly share any pictures they send me. Judy and I did not take any as we concentrated 110% on our guests.

Terrific story and a lovely testimony to your family's hospitality.  Worth an article in the magazine, as Eliot suggests.

Anyone similarly disposed should consider contacting their nearest assisted living facility or retirement facility.  These places always have transport available, and as long as the access issues are made clear, an appropriate audience will no doubt materialize.  They may even bring a picnic basket or two for all of you.

"Anyone similarly disposed should consider contacting their nearest assisted living facility or retirement facility.  These places always have transport available, and as long as the access issues are made clear, an appropriate audience will no doubt materialize.  They may even bring a picnic basket or two for all of you."

This is very true. This time they contacted me, but it is a good idea and I will consider making the initial contact myself. Any such visit will undoubtedly be a mutually enjoyable experience.

Thanks for your nice comments!

Alex

I just received a link to this video, but it is not a YouTube video, so I have to provide its address:

https://photos.google.com/shar...OGNSbmVkTnMzWkQzZXFn

It is a compilation of images and videos that our guests took while they were visiting us last week. I think the gentleman did a good job putting the video together. I enjoyed it, and hope you do as well.

Alex

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Old ? I started on a layout for grandkids' Polar Express when I was 90. Kids weren't too interested, but I was!!! I am now 93, and the layout has grown to about 300 square feet with 21 switches. I built it all, except for one table section with a raised crossover. Has an Christmas village (for wife), a "Jurassic Park" section, circus, yard, playground, town, with Lego houses built by grandkids  . Oh yeah, I also painted a 7 by about 30 foot mural for a background.

My wife says it was good to keep me busy for a while.

I'm not too proud of the "electrical system", so I have a "kill" switch to ensure no voltage when I leave the basement. Trains are on a "block" system with five. CW 80s.

Charlie N

 

 

 

AGHRMatt posted:
gg1man posted:

Sometimes the best part of our hobby is watching the joy in peoples eyes when they watch it run.

That's for sure. Great story, Alex.

My favorite time at Angels gate park is when they had an open house there , AGHR shinned the most with the visitors. Kids of all ages 2 to 92. it was almost a holiday experience with a ton of smiles from all the visitors. Belmont sure N gauge club would hear ," Mommy lets go see the big trains again". It happened many times. I miss that the most since I left Ca. Great memories.

Thank you all for your nice comments regarding the great visit we had, and the nice video they sent me. I knew that several of these nice folks were taking pictures, but I had not realized that at least one of them was taking videos. I was sort of busy answering questions and running the trains, and some details escaped my attention.

They have invited Judy and me for lunch and to take a look a the layout they are building, and I can hardly wait! Also, a number of them have asked the gentleman who organized the visit when can they come back. I told him, "anytime you like!"

And yes, their facial expressions and first comments when they see the layout are priceless; whether they are three or 92 years young. The real cute three-year young girl was the first to ask if the logs were actually being sawn as she watched the Lionel Saw Mill; and the 92-year young girl, besides going up the ladder through the hatch, carried a small plastic stool with her so she could see better, and she surely asked a lot of questions. I wonder what her role is/will be in building their layout!

Honestly, I never anticipated this sort of reaction from people, or how much enjoyment I experience by just sharing my train layout with others; the overwhelming majority of whom I had never even met before.

Alex

PS. Charlie N, if possible, could you post pictures of your layout and yourself? Those ought to be priceless.

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