Going in hot and fast is best. Going in slow allows too much time for heat to spread. Hot gives a high localized temp before heat can spread if in and out fast. Less btu needs to transfer if you do it hot & fast.
A dot solder of solder at the tip to promote heat transfer; once the piece is hot enough to melt solder too, feed sloder to thet piece not the tip; a few more degrees and it will flow flat; then pull heat away a second or three later. Solder flows to the heat once you are there. Overheat/contaminate metal, and it balls again. The balance is really up to your applying or lifting the heat as needed.
IMO, not enough heat is th #1 reason for most problems.
Another trick is heat sinking metal nearby with locking pliers, large hemostats, a well laid screwdriver blade, etc.. Foil makes good heat shield /bump shield, And coarse stainless Chore Boy scouring pads make for a nice clean tip (a fouled tip is bad. You can clean quickly with a damp sponge or rag, but jabbing it into this steel wool a few times while hot leaves an awsome clean-shine tinned tip, removing old excess well.
70w seems on the light side, it wont go quick.
I have boosted tip temp.s with torches/ micro-torches many times.
You should price a gun. I think Menards had a 150-250w for about $35. Sometimes the big ones can be cheaper too.
Not Weller; but the "yellow guns" also around "forever" aren't a bad gun either. Skinnier & longer gun body, the price is about 25% less average. (I'll try to recall where mine is)
It never hurts to add some flux (heat activated gel acid cleaner) and/or freshen the metal via wire brush, etc.. Clean is important in any molten metal process. Plated and metal treatment can produce issues is another reason to try the abrasive route and expose fresh base metal if there was doubt.