After more than 18 years buying on eBay, I have few complaints about a wide variety of items I bought, not just trains.
Literally 99 percent of my transactions have been trouble free. That means the items were described accurately, paid for with convenient terms, shipped as quickly as with any other type of dealer, safely packaged and in good working order.
The other 1 percent? I have had only two bad deals that I can recall: One $5 sale (a HeroClix figure) that was never shipped and one altered Lionel MPC locomotive that the dealer claimed ran well in both directions but in reality didn’t run at all. I had to get eBay involved on the second deal because the seller never responded to messages to arrange a return, but it was eventually resolved nonetheless.
In the early days of eBay, circa 2001, before PayPal transactions became the standard for payment, I faced off against one dealer who insisted on a money order or cash for a $3 decal set. No cashier’s check. No electronic transactions. The money order would have cost me more than the purchase price and shipping combined, and cash was the least secure way to make a payment. And he became annoyed when I didn’t make the payment quickly as I mulled over what to do. Over time, eBay forced dealers to improve their payment terms on behalf of buyers.
The rest of the problems involved no dishonesty. An usually slow-moving shipment from England that may have been caught up in customs. (My U.K. purchases have usually been about as fast as a UPS Ground shipment.) A damaged running gear component on a fragile N scale brass steamer, which the seller quickly resolved with a price adjustment. An incorrect shipment of some board-game hockey players (wrong team) which the seller made right by sending me the correct order while telling me to keep the incorrect one as well. And (to Marty’s point) a 2001 Lionel locomotive that developed a jerky running pattern that wasn’t always present and which my repair shop was never able to smooth out or diagnose.
That’s it.
My forum purchases have been mostly positive, too, but not perfect. One item arrived damaged due to very poor packaging.
I used to love going to train shows, but the drawbacks outweigh the benefits. Yes, you get to see the product in hand, and you may get to see it run, but is what you want there? Too often, I paid $10 or more for admission/parking and $10 or more for gas only to find nothing I wanted, or worse, buying something of marginal interest because I didn’t want to leave empty handed.
I still prefer shopping for O gauge and N scale trains in brick-and-mortar stores that price competitively, but when I am looking for older and used items, that’s not usually a realistic option. That’s where eBay comes in, and my saved searches always make it convenient for me to find out the availability of a certain item the same day it is listed. Can’t beat that.