Soldering does look like a great skill, and I have contemplated taking a class, which are offered in my area, however, they fill up fast! Which tells me alot.
Thank you.
A class would be good, but there are plenty of good soldering tutorials on youtube. Watch a few and try it out. If you have trouble go back and watch some more videos. You will get better with every try and be soldering like a pro in no time. There are soldering practice kits available on ebay and also some interesting electronic kits you could practice with as well as maybe find a use for. Most are pretty inexpensive too.
Also get a good soldering station like the Hakko FX-888D ($100 or so, give or take). Use 63/37 solder (make sure it's for electronics). Stay away from the 'un-leaded' solder, that stuff is terrible to work with, IMO. I am no soldering expert, but getting the Hakko really improved my soldering skills compared to the old, cheap 'soldering irons' I used before. Sure made a believer out of me!
As GRJ says, soldering is a must for working on your own trains and layout stuff.