"What is surprising is that "N" and "HO" would never take the abuse we do and accept."
Wait a minute. Back the train up...
For 95 years of Lionel's history, "scale" was hardly a concern. Despite of a couple attempts to produce "scale" items (which failed as they were short lived), Lionel has been a maker of TOY trains. If this bothered you, then you switched to either American Flyer or HO.
Now some of the items were close to scale proportion like the GP-9's, the F-3's and the Pennsy styled porthole caboose. No, they don't have the precision detail like today's trains do, but a lot of that was due to the manufacturing processes, and the materials and technology available at that time.
I highly doubt anyone of the 8 MILLION people (reliable estimates are that Lionel produced 8 million of them) who bought the short operating milk car NEVER considered the size of the car to be ABUSE!
Eight million, wow. I wonder if the entire production of all manufacturers scale product made in the past 20 years equals that number? I'd be inclined to doubt it, but who knows?
Then in the 1970's, Lionel introduced the "Standard 0" line of cars. They obviously had some success, as they stayed in production. But the VAST majority of Lionel products up to 1995, were TOYS that replicated real trains, and not precision scale models.
The introduction of TMCC changed everything. Along with the intense competition from first MTH, and then from K-Line. It's only been for the last 20 years of the ENTIRE history of 3-rail trains where "scale" has become such a touchy issue for some.
I'm glad the scale items are available. The 3-rail rail market is not that big, and needs everyone to help insure the vitality of the hobby. But you can't undo 95 years of history, even in 20 years.
There are still a lot of people buying the non-scale items, though they don't generate the same amount of traffic on the forum here. I'm one of them. I don't worry about the terms, whether it is called Bantam, Rugged Rails, 027, Baby, Junior, or semi-scale... so long as it looks good on a smaller layout with 027 curves.
Sometimes I wonder if this is really the High Rail, 027, and Traditional 0 gauge forum or not.
Bet I'd create an uproar though if I posted on the 3-rail scale forum about how great the RMT S-4 Bang diesel is... how great it runs, how reliable it is, how good it looks on my layout...