repair technician, first off your tiu has been assigned as tiu #5 thats what the 5 blinks at power up of tiu means. when you reset tiu did you also reset the remote?
to change tiu back to tiu #1 go to Menu/System/tiu setup/edit tiu address a window will show you should see tiu 1 select it and wait until remote says it has changed the address.
now turn the power off to tiu for a few seconds and turn power back on tiu should now blink 1 time and go to a steady glow.
now to eliminate any issue reset the remote Menu/System/Remote setup/remote reset once done see if remote will find tiu #1 using the read button on remote.
if it does find it continue playing with it but!
save this post or start yourself a how to book and write this fix down this aids for future issues until you start remembering some of this.
if this doesn't help try this procedure below.
take the phone cord from the handheld is a 4 pin connector not the one from phone to wall jack!
plug one end to tiu where it says remote in now connect the other end to remote and try the reset feature again.
if this works then inside the tiu is a small receiver board and most likely it has come somewhat loose from its pins. if you are not afraid unscrew cover and look for a board with a small 2" black wire that is the antenna make sure you have touched a metal object to discharge any electric static you might have and gently press and make sure that board is seated on its pins.
replace cover hopefully this will aid and or fix your issue.
let us know I am surprised the more knowledgeable dcs folks haven't chimed in yet but they might still be in slumber land.
hope this helps you