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Sometimes I have to think about whether I want to leave a “like” for a posting.  Things that matter to me are good photography, thoughtfulness and the time it took to post and, of course, things that make me chuckle.  

Even though I’m older and mature (not always according to my wife) I can still feel uncertain about my “likes”;  as if I might be judged on it. That’s stupid because I think that they are anonymous.  I think it’s part of human nature. Even at medical meetings you can, at times, see an unwillingness to be the first to answer a question posed by the lecturer for fear of appearing foolish.
What makes you push the “like” icon?

Alan

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@ajzend

Alan, just wanted to let you know that “likes” are not anonymous. If you hover the mouse over the box with the heart it will show you the handle of each person who posted a like for that particular post.

To answer your question I give a person a “like” if they do something ingenious, show something that took talent and or creativity to do, say something positive or helpful, say something I very much agree on and sometimes just to show someone support.

I never worry about being judged on my likes. To me giving someone a “like” is saying something positive. Kind of like a compliment. Why would anyone think badly of someone doing that? My advice is to do whatever you feel is right and if you change your mind you can always take the “like” away by clicking on it a second time.

Last edited by Hudson J1e

Good videos or photos, especially if part of a well-done layout scene.

If someone has a cool idea, concept, question, etc.

If the topic is a question, complaint, or broader discussion I am interested in, I try to leave likes on articulate, well-thought out replies.

If I post a question, I try to leave likes on helpful or otherwise insightful replies.

Specifically for topics, if you go to your profile you can see a list of all the topics (but I don't think replies) that you have ever left a like on, so sometimes I leave a like so I can come back later and read the replies. I will do this for topics on subjects that I think are interesting or I want to learn more about but am not informed on. It is a useful alternative to bookmarks for me and if the topic is ongoing I don't need to worry about my notifications blowing up.

I typically don't think about my rationale behind why I leave likes, good topic!

Alan;

I must say, I don’t understand your feeling of uncertainty. A like is simply an acknowledgment that YOU appreciate someone’s post. As has been mentioned, a good video or picture of something you find to be good modeling is deserving of a like (and if it is particularly good in your opinion, maybe a reply/comment). For me, posting anything New Haven or D&H will pretty much guarantee a like from me (and you can add NYC commuter lines through Westchester). And if you can explain something technical to this avowed techno-peasant in words I understand, you’ve got my like!!! Whimsical posts also tend to catch my eye and a like. So, in my opinion, LIKE away

P.S. maturity is overrated!!!

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If someone posts something great that is already getting lots of positive acknowledgement I am less likely to hit the like button.  OTOH if I can think of something better to say than simply "that is ingenious" "that shows creativity" or "that takes talent" I will probably say so in a post rather than hitting the like button.

@Apples55 posted:

Alan;

I must say, I don’t understand your feeling of uncertainty. A like is simply an acknowledgment that YOU appreciate someone’s post. As has been mentioned, a good video or picture of something you find to be good modeling is deserving of a like (and if it is particularly good in your opinion, maybe a reply/comment). For me, posting anything New Haven or D&H will pretty much guarantee a like from me (and you can add NYC commuter lines through Westchester). And if you can explain something technical to this avowed techno-peasant in words I understand, you’ve got my like!!! Whimsical posts also tend to catch my eye and a like. So, in my opinion, LIKE away

P.S. maturity is overrated!!!

I agree with Paul’s statement, “A like is simply an acknowledgment that YOU appreciate someone’s post.”. One thing I will add is I use ‘Likes’ for encouragement, besides writing a hopefully encouraging message.

@Apples55 posted:

Alan;

I must say, I don’t understand your feeling of uncertainty. A like is simply an acknowledgment that YOU appreciate someone’s post. As has been mentioned, a good video or picture of something you find to be good modeling is deserving of a like (and if it is particularly good in your opinion, maybe a reply/comment). For me, posting anything New Haven or D&H will pretty much guarantee a like from me (and you can add NYC commuter lines through Westchester). And if you can explain something technical to this avowed techno-peasant in words I understand, you’ve got my like!!! Whimsical posts also tend to catch my eye and a like. So, in my opinion, LIKE away

P.S. maturity is overrated!!!

I appreciate your commentary.  I don’t always think “likes “ are a black and white situation for me.  Not uncommonly it’s a shade of gray thing.  So, I might like it somewhat or not somewhat.  I don’t like to overstate things so I might have doubts.  These aren’t life and death issues, and maybe I place too much value in my “likes “.  I think that part of my problem is that as a doctor I am quite analytical by nature.
There’s an inappropriate crossover at work too that influenced my original posting.  I read news on the internet (I never watch news on the major TV networks ), and I do like to leave comments and likes. However, I may agree with the bulk of what’s being said, but sometimes there’s a sentence or two that seem a bit extreme to me. So, this is where I have more reservations.  
It’s not the same for forum posts.  As I said ,  maybe I place too value on my likes.  However, it’s usually not a difficult choice on the forum.
When I talk about how doctors can be at meetings I was basically reflecting on human nature in general.  Nobody likes to be wrong, and even less so for it to be publicly known.
Alan

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I know folks have to think about what they “Like” on Facebook and other places like it. They use that info to target ads. There is also loads of political content, so even if I agree with something, I may not want to advertise that to half of the people in my friends list. I still like things, I just think about first.

  Here, we really aren’t dealing with things like that. If I like the post more than others in the thread, I click the button. Maybe it was funny, or I really liked the pictures, or maybe the post mentioned a store or show I am familiar with. There is no shame in telling folks you like what they had to say.

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