OK, the straight plug tether is no longer available to this may be moot.
I got 2 of the straight plug ones, they actually plug into the existing tether like an extension!
So, I extended to straight plug and then shortened up to just a bit more than tender to engine gap on my Imperial Railking Big Boy. Shortening was accomplished by coiling excess in the top of the tender.
Then to allow curves I got out the Dremel tool and cut a slot in the front of the tender for the tether to slide side to side in. Be sure to make the slot at the height of the plug on the engine. My first one was a bit low, but it works.
The tether now looks like a Stoker tube. Most model engines are missing those.
I also shortened the drawbar 1/4" to make them sit closer together.
Note, My engine is now limited to O-54 and larger curves but it looks excellent.
lso, this will not look good on all tenders, my tender has an inset area in the front that hides the dremel work completely.
Good Luck