I always find these type of threads rather morbid. Yes, we are all going to die but i have a philosophy:
I PREFER TO PLAN FOR LIVING AND FIGURE THE DYING WILL TAKE CARE OF ITSELF!
My mother had an extensive doll collection (dolls, doll furniture, doll houses, etc) that brought her a great deal of enjoyment. Even though she suffered from Alzheimers for the last 8 years of her life, there were times she would just go in and sit where most of her collection was displayed and although she did not play with them, you could see the continent it seemed to bring her. After she passed, it took me several years to find a buyer for her collection and although I only got about 25% of its estimated value, it was still $5,000 more than I had. Plus the joy the lady who purchased them expressed was an extra bonus. I am so glad Mom had those treasured possessions up to the end.
And there are a lot more potential buyers for our trains than for dolls. There are companies one can call that will come to your home, pack the trains and auction them off without any effort on the owners part. Some will say that those inheriting them will be loosing money but even if they only get 10 cents on the dollar for them, that will be 10 cents they did not have before.
Bob, I hope you will not be bullied into selling your collection. As I have grown older and watched others grow older, there are things in their lives that bring comfort (kind of like comfort food), Many of these things bring back fond memories. And while there are those who will protest that they are only things and we should concentrate more on the people in our lives, those loved ones are busy with their own lives and cannot be around most of the time.
Life is short and getting shorter. Enjoy what you can of it.
Happy railroading,
Don
Originally Posted by bob2:
My spouse sees it differently - she wants me to start selling it all now, and finish by the time I die. That seems silly to me - if I truly get pleasure out of this stuff now, while I am extremely active doing other stuff, think about how much I will appreciate it all if and when I can no longer do all those other neat things?