I'm not sure where all of this negativity comes from.
Personally, I find the period of say...2000 to present day to be the most interesting/exciting time to be in 3 Rail O Gauge. While my artistic/modeling skills are closer to those of Joe Charboneau than Norm Charboneau, I can still own and operate truly first class locomotives and rolling stock.
Whether it's Legacy, TMCC, or DCS, there is a remotely controlled means of operating multiple trains at the same time for everyone. If you are morally opposed to Command Control, you can still run everything in Conventional Mode.
I'm a three railer but can now enjoy truly scale models....and not some post war reissue with poor paint coming from a die that is just about worn out.
I can't get enough of the UP FEF and NKP Berkshires from Lionel that I'm lucky enough to own. The Milwaukee Road and Sante Fe 4-8-4s from Lionel the past few years are also superb, IMHO. (I wish they were a little less expensive, but I digress.)
How can you not like the GE Evolution pieces from Lionel and MTH?
While not MY preference, Third Rail/Sunset has been making a very nice product for quite some time now. How can you not respect their offerings?
I really, really like the Steam Era Classics line from Atlas.
My track of choice is mostly Ross Custom with a little bit of Gargaves. I have a ton of product to pick from. Atlas also makes a great track system. MTH and Lionel obviously have their own track system as well. There's a hat for every head!
I'm very happy to see the Lionel Repair Center located in Northeast Ohio about an hour and a half from where I live.
I think companies like Electric Railroad and Z-Stuff for Trains are tremendous additions to the hobby.
I like having this forum up and running for a multitude of reasons....and they're all good!
I'm 41 years old/young/beat up. The MPC stuff that I was collecting and operating when I was younger can't hold a candle to what we currently have to pick from. I enjoy operating trains now more than I ever have.
We've also witnessed capitalism and competition in their textbook form: there are so many quality products from so many different manufacturers out there right now. Each company has had to raise the bar/quality of its product in order to keep up with the competition. We, as consumers, have never had a larger offering of model trains available to us.
In my own perfect world, our hobby wouldn't cost quite so much, all electronics would work properly forever, and all of the items would be made here in the U.S.A. Regardless, I really think it's a great time to be in O Gauge. I'm enjoying it. I hope you are too.